Dude, I am still in a bit of shock…

ATTENTION: MEN WHO ARE FRUSTRATED WITH THE LACK OF RESPONSE FROM WOMEN ON DATING SITES:

YOU NEED TO READ THIS!!!

The following information was sent to me by an online dating coach named Dave M:

“I found a request made on a very popular site which hires freelancers for writing, marketing and web programming.

It read like this:

“Need 500 unique dating profiles included. English must be readable and understandable. Include age, interests, and what your looking for in a date. 3-8 sentences. Sample profile included.”

Here’s that sample profile.

“Looking for a casual date or a new friend to hang out with from time to time. Cuban female 22/5?6/Cute ..wait… very cute. Im serious about meeting for some drinks or a date guys. Dont wanna make my ad long so email me and I’ll tell you a bit more about my self. If your looking for dating please dont be gay or married! Or married and gay LOL!!”

You may be wondering why someone would make this kind of a request.

It’s simple, this is a dating site’s attempt to create the illusion of there being more qualified ladies on their site than there really are.

If so, whether you are a man or a woman you ought to know that 97% of men quit online dating within three months. This is because they are FRUSTRATED that they make up these emails and send them to women who NEVER RESPOND TO THEM!!!

Unbelievable!!!

And women, in case you don’t think that this affects you…it does!

Think about it…if you are looking for quality men online and wondering why you keep getting these canned and skimpy emails from men….it’s because we are worn out with sending these carefully thought out emails and getting NOTHING in return!!

I know, I have been that guy more than once!

So we stop putting forth the effort just to have our emails go into some black hole on these dating sites. Sites which are simply creating ladies profiles to attract men who end up wasting their money and time to find a REAL woman….let alone a good match!

How man sites are doing this? I don’t know, but I do know this: For every one time someone gets caught for something, there are probably ten offenses that they did not get caught for. How many of the profiles out there are fakes?

I don’t know, but I can tell you this much:

Night clubs have known this trick for years…..decades even.

Think about it: “Why do you think it is that ladies drink free on certain nights?” It’s to get them there so that they will get the men there and pack their place out.

Only on the web, the women do not have to be real at all.

Now, I realize that I am not a dating expert….true I do write for dating experts but my trade is a marketer and personal development coach. However, I simply can’t leave this information hidden!

Men, be aware that this is what you are up against….and ladies. Please be patient and understand that if men are sending you form letters or Micky Mouse emails that they are simply trying to increase their opportunity for responses…unaware that their wasted efforts are due to a lack of REAL women on these sites.

I know, some of these guys are just downright pigs…I am aware of that. But there are some really great guys out there who would love to meet you so if you get one of these: “Hello, like your profile and would like to know more.” responses, give them man at least a chance…you may be very surprised and pleased to find that he is a man with some real depth and is just tired of putting out a lot of effort for nothing.

Right now it’s us against these Scammers.

I’m very sorry that I cannot provide more insight…but I will be looking into this and keep posting as I find out more. Right now, men and women both be encouraged that this is not simply more confusion in our ability to communicate.

Don’t give up. Pass the word on. Post a link to this blog wherever you can. I’m not out to market anything (the links in this post are not affiliate links) but a little reason and perhaps some hope for frustrated online daters.

Resource for online dating: Dave M. Insider Internet Dating

-To your success,

Seth Czerepak

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