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Who is Right, The Optimist or the Pessimist?

5 November 2009

Hey, …who is really right?…

….the optimist or the pessimist? I mean when you think about it: the glass is half full of water and half full of air, both of which are essential to our survival. Then again, what if it wasn’t water…what if it was poison instead?

Then who is the pessimist?

Ah! Too many questions !

You know, in reality both the optimist and the pessimist believe that they are right…unless they are in denial that is…

….I just love it when a known pessimist says: “I’m not a pessimist I’m a realist.”

Ugh. Get over yourself.

But do you know what?

They’re actually both “realists” when you think about it!

You see, both optimists and pessimists get what they expect to get, they see what they expect to see and they believe what they want to believe. Their life is a reflection not of reality, but of their beliefs and their expectations.

Sure, there are absolutes which none of us can control (thank God for that). However, the way that we process those absolutes is what makes all of the difference in our lives: This means the way that we choose and manage our relationships, the way that we care for our bodies and the way that we manage our money.

This is because our view of the world is determined by our personal belief system, or the “map” which we use to navigate through our lives. This “map” is determined by our conditioning and it is this which determines our financial success, our relationships, our health and our overall sense of personal fulfillment and purpose.

It is also this conditioning which determines whether or not we are a pessimist or an optimist. The question is this: what kind of conditioning is going to help you to have the experiences which will bring security and excitement and a sense of personal validation to your life?

This question is more important than whether or not you are a pessimist or an optimist, and it is certainly more important than who is right or wrong. However, if you are like most people chances are that you know what you really want out of life. You have dreams and expectations…but is your life meeting those expectations?

If not, then it is time to change the map which you are using to navigate through your life. The problem is that most people are unaware of how this is accomplished…..some are even unaware of the fact that it CAN be accomplished.

Well, having spent several years working with people on changing their conditioning I have found that the answer lies within our understanding of exactly how we are conditioned and how the process of behavioral transformation REALLY works.

This is the first step to creating a life which meets your expectations, and I’m providing you with a free resource which explains this process in detail. It’s called “The Human Condition” Here is what this free report will show you:

  • The reason why people behave in ways that are inconsistent with what they really want
  • How your mind is wired to protect you from changing your conditioning and your behaviors (this is a double edged sword and once you know this, you can use it to your advantage)
  • The catalyst which can empower anyone to change their conditioning without having to feel that the change is unnatural or “forced’

“The Human Condition” is available right now for you to download and our monthly newsletter “Genius in Leadership” will be including step by step instructions which can help you to use this information to live your life on your terms.

All you have to do is register (don’t worry, it’s free) If you have not done this, you can do so on our home page. Have a great week !

-To Your Success,

Seth Czerepak

By the way, Rocky has been asking me if he can write to the members of our site. I’m kind of thinking that he might be up to something since I haven’t taken him to the dog beach in a while…anyway, just giving you a warning in case he wears me down.

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