Reflect on this for a moment...

From the doors that are opened by successful partnerships at work, to the goals that are achieved through the support of those who believe in us...from the daily laughter and joy that comes from living out a great romance, to the very legacy that we leave behind when we are gone… Relationships are the foundations that we build all valuable aspects of our lives on. And what qualities do foundations need to have?

They need to be strong and trustworthy. They need to be consistent and empowering. Humans are natural builders.

Throughout our lives we work hard to build, to create, to become. And so many of the things that we build are intangible:

love, family, self-pride, personal peace, trust, integrity. But those intangible aspects of life are the most significant:

And in the heart of every person, including YOU is the desperate urge to feel security. There is nothing wrong with having that urge.  But you have to be careful.

Why?

Because dangerous relationships create faulty foundations. And what happens to our lives, when our foundations fail us? If those foundations that we build our lives on are cracked or faulty…Then everything that we seek to build will eventually come crashing down . Nothing hurts worse than a failed relationship:

Have you ever felt the pain of being…

The abandoned lover The displaced spouse The disregarded child The betrayed friend The unappreciated worker The neglected mate The despised parent

Think about this: Do you understand what it feels like to:

Bend over backwards for others and be mistreated? Feel like you are never going to be good enough for anyone? Feel lonely and afraid to trust another person? Second-guess every step that led you to the point of hurt? Feel bitterness against the people around you who seem happy? Harbor such resentment against another that it eats you up inside?

If you have ever experienced any of these feelings, then you know what I mean when I say:

Love Hurts. Love Stinks. Yeah, Yeah. And yet, we keep doing it, don’t we?  

We keep falling madly in love with one another. We keep making friends to share the laughter and sorrow of life with. We keep building bonds with our co-workers to explore and inspire. We keep having children to cherish and to help grow into who they are meant to be. And there is a reason for our persistence when it comes to interpersonal relationships:

There is nothing more rewarding than a healthy relationship with another human being.

But reward is one thing. What if I told you that your relationships are about more than reward or failure?

What if I told you that they hold the keys to who you are to become? Ever wanted the power to see what your future holds?

I’m sure that you're familiar with these two words: destiny and destination. But you may have never thought about how interconnected they are. We tend to think of destiny as an inevitable ending. While our concept of destination is more practical: it is where you are headed right now. But the truth is that these words mean essentially the same thing. The point is that we often speak of destiny as if it were beyond our power. And if something is beyond our power, why should we try to change it? If our relationships with others are beyond our control, why try to make them better?

What would happen, if instead of thinking of destiny as some vague point in the future, we remembered how related it is to the concept of destination. Meaning that the road that you are on RIGHT NOW is leading you to your destination, to your destiny. Is that destiny predetermined?

Heck Yes It Is. But that does NOT mean that it is written in stone.

It is predetermined by the things that you do on your way there

You see, your destiny does not exist yet.  You can write your own life story. So what does this have to do with your relationships?

What would you think if I told you that that future is dependent upon your interpersonal relationships?

That your personal relationships with other people will influence almost every aspect of your life?

Stop and take a moment to think about this: You are who you share your life with.

Your interpersonal relationships with others influence every factor of your life. It is impossible to live in a world absent of the influence of other people. That is why one of the most important things that you will EVER realize is how crucial it is to put effort into making those relationships empowering.

Imagine: Each Relationship of Your Life Could be Enriching and Fulfilling

As you reflect on this, you begin to realize how your life would change if you could make this statement your reality… Imagine: the joy of being:

A cherished partner to a devoted spouse A respected co-worker who is highly valued A leader who is admired and emulated A lover who is treasured and not taken for granted A parent who inspires and is both loved and listened to

Don’t listen to those who would tell you that having these kinds of relationships isn’t possible. They are possible. And they are more within your reach than you think. How do I know this? Because I've seen the evidence myself. My name is Seth Czerepak, I am the president of VQ Success, a personal development organization and I have been coaching people on personal achievement and on building healthy relationships for nearly half of my life.

I served as a life coach for 5 years counseling clients from various walks of life on how to attract, build, and sustain healthy and positive interpersonal relationships. Throughout the course of that time, I began to understand the commonalities in the problems that my clients were having and how to help them solve those problems and turn their relationships into empowering ones. I learned quickly that it doesn’t matter where you come from or what your story is:

Your relationships with others will determine the course and the quality of your life.

Learning how to attract and maintain nurturing and dynamic relationships is the most important information that you will ever gain. I believe this so strongly, that I have created the course "The Spiral of Influence" in order to help others become empowered through the same principles I've used to help hundreds of people as a life coach. I believe that you deserve to know this:

You can be a person who is surrounded by the comfort and inspiration that comes from living a life filled with meaningful healthy relationships. All too often, we take the effect that relationships have on our lives for granted. Stop and Reflect for a Moment with Me:

Think about an unhealthy relationship that you have had in your life. And honestly answer the following:

Did that relationship ever cause you to lose faith in yourself? Did it ever make you feel powerless or mistreated? Did you hold those feelings inside? Or did you vent about them to your family and friends? Can you recall a special occasion that was ruined by that relationship? Are there things that you may have accomplished during that time in your life that you did not end up accomplishing? Did you miss out on or lose relationships with other people that may have been positive, because of that bad relationship

You see, it is impossible to keep bad relationship from seeping into other aspects of our lives.

In fact: Your relationships impact every aspect of your well-being

For instance:

Did you know that many marriages end in divorce, not due to a lack of love, but due to the couple’s lack of understanding how to relate to one another?

Did you know that many men AND women state that their reason for having extramarital affairs came from feeling disempowered in their marriages?

Did you know that the emotional state of happiness may lead to a healthier and longer life span by as much as ten years?

That’s right. Recent findings by the APA report that the quality of your personal relationships will have a serious impact on your health. High levels of stress from negative relationships can lead to the following conditions:

Hyperthyroidism Ulcers Sexual dysfunction Tooth and gum disease Obesity Heart disease Hair loss Depression Diabetes Anxiety disorder or obsessive-compulsive disorder

And do you know what ONE factor statistics have shown contributes most to happiness? It’s not material wealth, or level of education, or even security:

The single biggest factor in human happiness is good relationships with other people. You have everything to gain and nothing to lose by learning how to gain happiness through healthy relationships with others.

"The Spiral of Influence" is a comprehensive multi-media and lifetime membership course that will help you:

Understand where you currently stand in terms of your personal relationships. Figure out how to transform unhealthy relationships into healthy ones. Learn how to attract positive relationships into your life, not by ‘thinking’ about it, but by taking real action. Recognize ‘red flags’ that will help you avoid getting into unhealthy relationships.

So are you ready to change your destiny?

Here is just a taste of what you will learn from "The Spiral of Influence"

Part One: The Core of Your Relationships:

Do you always seem to choose the unhealthiest relationships? Do you know what causes even great relationships to deteriorate? Are you ready to learn how to build healthy relationships?

• Find out how to break the cycle of unhealthy relationships by learning the ONE common denominator in all of your relationships.
  
• Learn how to overcome fear of disapproval and jealousy and find out the truth about unconditional love.
  
• Discover what ‘positive thinking’ fails to accomplish. AND learn what it really takes to INSTANTLY change things that would take years to change otherwise.

Part Two: The Dynamics of Human Nature

Do you long to know how to find security in times of change? Are you ready to successfully manage life’s ups and downs? Do you want to know how to govern your life and relationships on your terms?

• Learn to look beyond external circumstances to the root of what makes you happy. Discover the principles that get you through good and bad times.
• Find out what is holding you back and how to conquer it.
• Realize real freedom by finally understanding the foundation of positive influence. PLUS, learn how to meet the needs of others without sacrificing your own needs.
  

Part Three: The End of Unhealthy Relationships

Do you know what your greatest strength really is? Do you have a positive or negative influence on other people? Can you recognize potentially dangerous relationships when you see them?

• Discover your greatest strength and how to put it to use improving your life.
• Learn how to recognize potentially healthy relationships.
• AND learn how to identify dangerous traits in others that may be warning signs that you should steer clear.
  

Part Four: Building Empowering Relationships

Would you like to know how to build solid, healthy relationships with others? Do you need to know how to effectively manage failures and turn them into successes? Do you know how to take that first step towards building trust?

• Discover the key to positive influence that leads to empowering relationships.
  
• Find out how to stop dragging around the baggage of failed relationships.
  
• Learn how to build and how to restore trust in your interpersonal relationships.
  

Part Five: Becoming a Person of Influence

Are you settling for less than what you were born to be? Are you stuck dwelling on the past, when you could be living in the present? Are you the master of your emotions, or do your emotions control you?

• Understand the truth about sacrifice, and what you’ve been doing wrong.
  
• Figure out how to attract the best relationships into your life, and also how to transform your current ones.
  
• Become the master of your emotions, instead of allowing them to master you.
  
• Learn invaluable principles that you can use to improve every circumstance of your life.
  

Right now your head may be full with questions like:

What if I don’t have the time to do what it takes to change my relationships? What if I read the material, but I just don’t “get it”? What if this is all stuff that I have heard before? What if I have questions about the course that I can’t find answers to in the book? What if I don’t want to spend money to make my relationships better?

You Will Never Be Alone Again in Learning to Build Healthy Relationships

Look, I know that these are common questions. And that is why I’ve kept them in mind in the creation of this course. I've spent a lot of time on the forums online where people are desperate for answers about how to build healthy relationships. They post questions and they get feedback and support from people. The problem is that the people providing feedback are often just as clueless in their own relationships. On top of that, many of the experts are selling books or courses, but are far enough from their customers that they are not there to be accountable for their success. The customer is completely on their own when it comes to using and understanding the material in the book or course.

Weekend seminars are just as challenging (and MUCH more expensive) As you are about to discover, I've made a commitment to ensure that you will never be alone in learning to build healthy relationships. Let me explain.

To start, when you download The Spiral of Influence you'll get instant access to:

The complete Spiral of Influence in convenient ebook format (PDF) AND as 15 mp3 Audio files.
The audio files make it simple to download these priceless insights to your ipod or to burn them to a CD. You can listen to them driving to and from work. You can even listen while at the gym, or while you are working in your home or yard.

Along with "The Spiral of Influence" ebook in both formats, you’ll receive the comprehensive Workbook and Action plan.

The workbook gives you practical guidelines to access your progress through the course. It also offers practical examples of how to implement the principles that you will learn throughout the course into your daily life.

You will never need to question if you are “really getting it”. The workbook takes you step-by step through the course, making sure that you never miss a point.

But you and I both know it takes more than that to ensure your LONG TERM success. So...

Free Bonus #1: LIFETIME access to the members only forum: $97 Value

LIFETIME membership to "The Spiral of Influence" web site is more than just access to other people who are on the same journey to success that you are. It also includes all of the resources and tools that are there right now AND all of those that will be added in the future. You will also gain access to several dynamic, interactive tools to help you understand yourself and others better (all created by a graduate level expert in sociology and the psychology of human behavior).

For example: personality tests, communication style quizzes, dynamic career placement/natural talents and skills test and several more which are being created as you are reading this page. However, most important, my staff and I are available to answer any questions you post in our members area or submit in private. Best yet, NO monthly membership fees to pay. Here are just a few things that you can expect from being a lifetime member of the VQ Success Community forum:

Never be alone or have a question go unanswered again. Be linked with others who are facing the same challenges that you are facing. Listen to and share stories of success with other members of the community. Have an instant support group right there whenever you need encouragement. Discuss your progress through the course with others who really understand. Ask questions when you get stuck and have other members and the VQ Success staff there to answer them. Find people that you can start building positive relationships with TODAY. Know that there is a place that you can safely share and receive smart and compassionate feedback from people who know what they are talking about.

You see, I believe in building communities of positive influence. I know that sometimes the road gets tough, and you need extra help finding your way. My commitment to your personal success lasts as long as you need it to. There's more down the page but if you've already made up your mind...

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And finally...my commitment to your success:

Listen, I'm offering you my services because I believe that I can help you. If you're not convinced of that within the first 30 days, just tell me and I'll refund your money. No hard feelings. That's my commitment to your success.

How Much is the Investment?

I've received a lot of negativity from people for this, but I'm offering this entire lifetime membership, the full multimedia course (ebook, 15 MP3s and Action Plan Workbook), the lifetime access and the free bonuses for a measly one time investment of $97. Order a course like this from any one else, and you're paying hundreds...and that's without the lifetime membership. But I'm not making this offer from behind a cherry desk in some high rise office.

I've been in the that office before. I worked for one of the world's largest personal development organizations and I've been in the corporate world making the 100k Salary. I left it all to start this company because I believe that people like you deserve to all the help that I can give them. Go to my site and you'll find my bio, a link to my Facebook page, my home phone number and answers to my clients questions. I'm not going anywhere. I'm completely committed to your success.

So...

Isn’t it time that you learn how to have meaningful healthy relationships?

Now is the best time to start learning how to not only get what you need out of the relationships in your life, but also how to GIVE what others need. If you can do this, you can be a force of inspiration and of kindness in the lives of everyone who knows you. Is there anything more meaningful than that?

Think about it: What kind of legacy do you want to leave behind?

I don't know about you, but I'm going to die someday. I'm going to try and make it the last thing I do...but I know it's certain. No one gets out of this life alive. What will people say about you when you're gone?

Will you have lived a life full of meaningful and positive relationships?

Will your family and friends have benefited from being close to you?

Will you have inspired and positively influenced those whose lives you have touched?

Will your legacy be one of inspiration and of hope?

The choice is yours. I'll be there with you, but first you have to take a step only YOU can take. If you take this step right now, my company and I will make a commitment to you that will last a lifetime. Let's get started...

PS There are probably dozens of reasons for you to put this off until tommorrow...or the next day, or the next. The longer you put it off, the more excuses will arise. The further away you'll get from building healthy relationships and living the life you deserve to live. You will never run out of excuses. Remember, this is a 100% guaranteed offer. Remember that right now is the only time that you can live in and the longer you put off your dreams for success, the more distant they will become.

PPS Stop and ask yourself right now: "How many times have I let procrastination rob me of my dreams to live a better life?" If you've read this far then we both know this is exactly what you've been looking for. If not, you wouldn't have wasted your time reading this entire page. You have a chance today to finally realize your deepest and truest potential in building healthy relationships. Why not do it right now?

PPPS Since you are still reading this, there can only be one reason: you're looking for more certainty that this will work for you. The certainty you're looking for can only come from one source: you. If you've read this far and you're still unsure, then you need a stronger sense of self-confidence and personal security. Let's get started on both right now.